{"id":29551,"date":"2021-09-08T13:44:16","date_gmt":"2021-09-08T17:44:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.centraide-mtl.org\/?p=29551"},"modified":"2022-11-14T12:16:22","modified_gmt":"2022-11-14T17:16:22","slug":"socialize-to-break-the-isolation-of-stay-at-home-moms","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.centraide-mtl.org\/en\/blog\/socialize-to-break-the-isolation-of-stay-at-home-moms\/","title":{"rendered":"Socialize to break the isolation of stay-at-home moms"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>M\u00e9lanie manages a household of seven children. In her busy life as a stay-at-home mom, socializing at the Maison de la famille at the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.centraide-mtl.org\/repertoire-des-organismes-et-projets\/centre-communautaire-val-martin\/\" data-type=\"organization\" data-id=\"7077\">Centre communautaire Val-Martin<\/a> (Val-Martin community centre) and taking part in activities does her a great deal of good.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cMy name is M\u00e9lanie, and I\u2019m the mother of five children who are 11, 8, 7, 4 years old, and 2 months. I\u2019m also the stepmother to two children who are 15 and 3 years old. I\u2019ve been a stay-at-home mom for eight years. Four years ago, when my daughter was in kindergarten, one of her friend\u2019s moms invited me to a workshop at the Maison de la famille (family centre) at the Centre communautaire Val-Martin. The topic of the workshop interested me, so I said yes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I would never have dared to go by myself. I didn\u2019t think it was for me as my ex-husband and I didn\u2019t have financial issues. But when I visited, I could relax and socialize. When I started going, I\u2019d been a stay-at-home mom for more than three years. It felt great to get out of the house and socialize with other mothers. I made new friends and was able to have some more me-time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Over time, I got more involved with the Maison de la famille. I now lead creative activities and community workshops on independent cooking, and I\u2019m a member of the parents\u2019 committee. I worked in an office before being a stay-at-home mom, and I feel a bit like I\u2019ve found a team and a work structure.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:17px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:100%\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:790px\">\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote has-text-align-left is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>WHEN I STARTED GOING TO THE CENTRE COMMUNAUTAIRE VAL-MARTIN, I\u2019D BEEN A STAY-AT-HOME MOM FOR MORE THAN THREE YEARS. IT FELT GREAT TO GET OUT OF THE HOUSE AND SOCIALIZE WITH OTHER MOTHERS. I MADE NEW FRIENDS AND WAS ABLE TO HAVE SOME MORE ME-TIME.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:325px\"><div class=\"wp-block-image is-style-default\">\n<figure class=\"alignright size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"400\" height=\"225\" src=\"https:\/\/www.centraide-mtl.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/Exergue-blogue-Melanie-1-edited-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-29524\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.centraide-mtl.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/Exergue-blogue-Melanie-1-edited-1.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.centraide-mtl.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/Exergue-blogue-Melanie-1-edited-1-300x169.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/figure><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cOver time, I got more involved with the Maison de la famille. I now lead creative activities and community workshops on independent cooking, and I\u2019m a member of the parents\u2019 committee. I worked in an office before being a stay-at-home mom, and I feel a bit like I\u2019ve found a team and a work structure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"melanie\">If I could talk to the M\u00e9lanie I was five years ago, I would tell her to stop being self-conscious, to summon her courage, and go to the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.centraide-mtl.org\/en\/directory-of-agencies-and-projects\/centre-communautaire-val-martin\/\">Centre communautaire Val-Martin<\/a>. I met some amazing people, a new family, and a new home. Now, I no longer live in the neighbourhood, but I come back to Chomedey for Maison de la famille.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right\"><strong>\u2014 M\u00e9lanie<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:32px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"is-style-little-title wp-block-heading\"><strong>Watch Melanie&#8217;s testimony<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n<section id=\"block_c6eeb5505832934992f63b41b7805ae1\" class=\"video__vtx theme-block aligndefault\">\n  <a class=\"video__vtx_link popup-youtube\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=Kgxa0bBIOxI\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\n    <div class=\"carousel-content__item__video__back\" style=\"background-image:url(https:\/\/www.centraide-mtl.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/2022_Miniature-YouTube-Temoignage-Melanie-BIL.png);\">\n    <div class=\"overlay_video\"><\/div>\n      <i class=\"icon icon-play\"><\/i>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/a>\n      <div class=\"video__vtx__title\">\n      Socialize to break the isolation of stay-at-home moms    <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:60px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>M\u00e9lanie manages a household of seven children. 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