{"id":104231,"date":"2026-05-29T09:24:00","date_gmt":"2026-05-29T13:24:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.centraide-mtl.org\/?p=104231"},"modified":"2026-05-27T14:25:46","modified_gmt":"2026-05-27T18:25:46","slug":"an-apartment-that-finally-makes-it-possible-to-be-yourself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.centraide-mtl.org\/en\/blog\/an-apartment-that-finally-makes-it-possible-to-be-yourself\/","title":{"rendered":"An apartment that finally makes it possible to be yourself"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-large-font-size\">For Iraveen, a resident in the housing program at Passages, having her own apartment marks an important moment in her life. This space allows her to fully be herself, as a trans woman, without fear of judgment. Passages\u2019 mission is to provide a welcoming environment and an inclusive living space for people who identify as women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-large-font-size\">\u201cI truly feel accepted here,\u201d says Iraveen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading is-style-little-title\"><strong><strong><strong><strong>Escaping violence to find safety<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>When Iraveen arrives in Montreal in 2019, she is in an abusive relationship she must leave quickly. \u201cI was in a difficult situation,\u201d she explains. \u201cI was moving from one shared apartment to another, and after a while, it just wasn\u2019t working anymore. It was really hard. I also went back and forth to the Passages shelter a few times.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then, one day, she receives good news: an apartment at Passages has become available. This place allows her to get back on her feet. The support workers welcome her with respect and kindness. They listen to her, support her, and guide her, making all the difference.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:49px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-center has-white-background-color has-background is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<div style=\"height:18px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center is-style-little-title\">\ud83c\udfe0 <strong><strong>Passages\u2019 shelter and housing programs<\/strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Passages offers emergency and short-term shelter services in a house that can accommodate up to 18 young women aged 18 to 30. Intake is available 24 hours a day, 365 days a year, in a safe environment. Short stays range from a few hours to three days, depending on the individual\u2019s needs.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Meanwhile, Passages\u2019 housing program provides young women with affordable apartments and community support. In partnership with the Soci\u00e9t\u00e9 d\u2019habitation populaire de l\u2019Est de Montr\u00e9al (SHAPEM), the agency offers 14 semi\u2011furnished units where tenants can stay as long as needed. Two support workers are on site five days a week to help women maintain stable housing and develop their independence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:65px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading is-style-little-title\"><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong>Creating a safe and personal space<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Once settled in, Iraveen turns her apartment into a true cocoon. She explains that to create the perfect atmosphere, she plays with colour, light, and textiles. She even plants flowers on her balcony with the other residents.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:18px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column has-white-background-color has-background is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"is-style-little-title has-large-font-size\" style=\"font-style:normal;font-weight:500;letter-spacing:3px\">\u201cWhen the sun shines on my balcony, it\u2019s beautiful. It makes the apartment feel really warm,\u201d Iraveen says with a smile.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:18px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>This simple act takes on symbolic meaning: it\u2019s the first time she\u2019s been able to beautify a space that truly belongs to her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:65px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:0px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading is-style-little-title\"><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong>A community that understands her Experience<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Beyond having a place to live, what sustains Iraveen day to day is the connection she builds with the other residents. She adds that they do all kinds of activities together, but what she enjoys most is cooking as a group.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cWe cook together and clean up together. We also help organize activities. We\u2019re not alone, but we\u2019re not required to always be surrounded either,\u201d she explains.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She greatly appreciates this balance between independence and community. Trust and respect come first at Passages. Having an apartment also allows her to do things she couldn\u2019t before, like adopting a cat she named Isabel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:66px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading is-style-little-title\"><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong>Protecting her stability<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>What she hopes now is that all of this can last. 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